Battles may be won on the battlefield but the war is won in the office of planning. Women do not only rock the cradle but sometimes governed the men and directs the affairs of states. Powerful women rulers once roamed Africa like the mighty elephant. In fact an African king was powerful in most cases because he had a powerful wife who spared him on. However, even though women have done some great deeds in the past, they have made some simple mistakes which sometimes caused them years of unhappiness, and sometimes caused their death.

TELLING THE MAN THAT SHE IS FAT.

The man is not blind, if a woman is a three hundred ponder, and a man comes lusting. That mean it is ok with him. Do not start making promises that you are going to loose weight. Some men do not know what fat is. "Fat" Becomes a problem only after the two people cannot get on. I once dump a woman who keep telling me that she is going to loose weight. I say "You do not have any meat on your body, and you are still trying to loose" If a woman think that she is fat she should go among men who like fat women. A person who get fat naturally should try to build up inner qualities. Inner qualities is what hold people together. If a man is not worried about your age or your fat. You must stop worrying about it. Are you could cause him to feel stupid. To love a body that you has hate.

ONE OF THE REASONS WHY SOME WOMEN FAIL TO GET THE RESPECT OF MEN.

Businesses sex.

Don't do any business sex with a man that you are planning to land as a husband. Once money is exchanged for sex you have spoiled the relationship. You can take money the day before or the day after as a gift, but not the day of the sex, and never immediately after sex. It will give the man the wrong impression, that you have something to sell.

DON'T GRANT MEN SEXUAL FAVORS TO GET THEM.

If you have to had sex, do it because you feel in your body that you want to do it. after you have done it, and the man decides not to have you as a wife there is no need for you to be bitter against men for that one let down, because you did not do it for him, but for yourself. This is reason why many black women are bitter against black men. This attitude sets them up for a fall when they start a new relationship. They bring the same hard feelings into the new relationship, and thus punishing the new man for the old man behavior. The new man soon gets fed up and leaves. He never get a chance to prove if he was bad are good. He get caught up into a war that he did not started, and step into mess that he did not left behind.

FIGHTING FOR CONTROL.

Another pit fall is the fight for control. If you take control you also take on the responsibility without knowing it. Men also loose a sense of responsibility when they loose control. Don't argue with men, don't change them but just let them burn themselves out. For example if your man is doing drugs, and you have tried to stop him one time or two, and he puts up a resistance to continue, let him continue. Keep bothering him, and when the police catch him, he blamed it on you.

ALWAYS HAVE AN ADDRESS.

Another mistake women makes, is having now addres. Are give a false address. You do not want people to turn up where you live un-invited. give an e-mail address. If it is even an email address, but you must be able to be reach. Any library that has computer, you can go there, and set up an e-mail address. You do not have to have a computer. www.hotmail.com. www. email.com. www.homestead.com. www.looksmart.com. all these give away free email address. I was looking at a girl. She saw me looking at her, and came to ask for direction. Actually she know the place better than I do. She only wants to give me the chance to talk to her.

ONE OF THE MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IS TO SEEK THE ADVICE OF ANOTHER WOMAN ABOUT A MAN.

Women don't know how men think. If you want to know what is going on in a mans head ask another man. A man was talking to two women but he is trying to get woman one so woman two send woman one to buy ice cream then poisons the mans mind against woman one. She runs her off, then takes the man that she would have got. You even find this same trick in church. I once was trying to get a sister. She made another sister write a curse off letter, and give her to give to me. When I finally met my wife that trick could not be played on her. Some church sisters loose every chance they get because of the same stupidity.

PLAYING GAMES WITH THE RELATIONSHIP.

Remember the topic." Mistakes Women Make" Another mistakes that women make are. "Playing with the relationship" Get their husband sexually excited then ignores it just to laugh about it with their co-workers. As soon as she left he used it on her friend. The message is if you are not planning to use it don't sharpen it.

WOMEN WORST MISTAKES

Song of Solomon 8:7-AV Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if [a] man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.

Look good. The scriptures talk about "Waters, and flood" That these cannot destroy love. But it never say any thing about fire. Waters in the scriptures, speak of afflictions. Love will endure afflictions. It cannot endure provocation, stupidity, and a controlling spirits. That is why, the couple must push love aside when the courtship is coming to an end, and the going steady period is about to start. acquaintances, courtship, going steady, engagement finally marriage. The relationship must be allow to go through the stages. During the courtship period, before it comes to the going steady period. You must push love aside, and start to deal with the relationship just like you were recruiting a business partner. Because, love will cause you to over look something that is going to kill you later.

NEVER LEAVE JESUS OUT OF YOUR LIFE.

Job 35:10-AV But none saith, Where [is] God my maker, who giveth songs in the night; Job 35:11-AV Who teacheth us more than the beasts of the earth, and maketh us wiser than the fowls of heaven?

Do not be a holy cow now. And I"never do that" kind of person. Just do not leave out God. It is like leaving your drivers, and credit license behind. While going down the road of life with an empty gas tank.

FALL IN LOVE WITH DEAD WEIGHT MEN.

This group of men cannot pay their way because they have no skill. But because they tell women what women want to hear they get the women. "I cannot live without you" Then he begins to beat you and he asks you for another chance. Then he uses the chance to kill the woman. What should you do?

St Mt 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. )(Isa 55:6 Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near:

Job 22:21 Acquaint now thyself with him, and be at peace: thereby good shall come unto thee. {him: that is, God}

Pr 8:4 Unto you, O men, I call; and my voice [is] to the sons of man. Pr 8:17 I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.

Isa 53:4 Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted. Isa 53:5 But he [was] wounded for our transgressions, [he was] bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace [was] upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. Isa 53:6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.

Isa 1:18 Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

Re 22:17 And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.

(Mt 11:28 Come unto me, all [ye] that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Mt 11:29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

Mt 11:30 For my yoke [is] easy, and my burden is light.) (La 3:27 [It is] good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth. MY friend, accept Jesus as your Savior today.

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